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I never learned whether the boy I lost my virginity to was struggling with his sexuality. Although one thing I can vividly remember was that it was quite literally the other way around, the visceral shock of being somewhat shoved back in the closet and denied the celebratory expungement of my virginity was palpable.

First and foremost, I’m new to Reddit and this is my first post so please forgive me as I continue to learn how to get the most from this platform. As the only out young gay kid at my school, I took the advancement of my sexual experiences into my own hands and I did what we all do: I bought a fake ID and hit the gay clubs.

I was at college, living in dorms, and the experience—aside from the usual horrifying awkwardness and somewhat spontaneity of the occasion—was completely and utterly unremarkable aside from one thing: the guy I slept with identified as straight.

It was late or early, depending teens your outlook on the virgin when I was joined by the boy who was living in icy gay tube room next to mine, way back on the other side of the building.

And while at the beginning I felt like I had the upper hand in the situation—I was the one who was out and comfortable in my sexuality, right? And maybe, like the song says, that does sanctify our sex lives and makes us just a little bit holy. I realize I fell into that old gay adage of placing my feelings on a person who, for whatever reason, was never going to invest them back in me.

Out on the scene I had thrilling and, now looking back, precarious hook ups with guys, going far but never all the way. I was 19 when I first had full-on sex with another man. Bursting through that shame is our badge of honor, our beautifully united experience.

My name is Evan and I’m a year-old openly gay male. A video celebrating LGBTQ+ love and culture, showcasing gay teenagers, boys love, and gay relationships with hashtags like #lgbtqlove and #gayculture. My first year at college, apart from being grueling mentally, was hardly a sexual smorgasbord of one-night-stands and hook-ups.

Sign In. Save Story Save this story. Worst of all, though, the shame attached to the memories of those first times marred how I would approach sex for years. All I know is that one moment we were talking and the next minute, well Before that night, I had hardly been a nun.

The minutiae of exactly how things developed from us being together in that room to us having slightly unsuccessful sex in a bathroom in a different corridor have since escaped me. Hey everyone! Still, as I grew into my late-teens, venues started to crack down harder on gay drinking, and it soon became increasingly difficult to go and hook up with guys much older than myself.

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Instead, I reverted to my teenage years, pining after straight boys who I knew I had no chance in hell with The boy told his then-girlfriend who I knew aboutsaying I had come on to him but that nothing had really happened. He was clearly intoxicated, but it was a party after all and who was I, quite drunk myself, to judge.

I felt, in my increasingly anxious and deflated state, that I was being left behind. I’m essentially a virgin. I Lost My Virginity to a Straight Boy There’s a way to burst through the shame gay men are made to feel about homosexuality.

Advice for a 28 y/o Male Gay Virgin? Search Search. When I was a teenager, I was precocious and restless.