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Many of the most well-known hanky colours, such as RED for fisting or YELLOW for watersports, have been adopted into modern gear - purely for fashion, choice, and style. So, we adopted our own 'secret' codes such as hankies, bandanas, and Polari.

We have moved away from the traditional all black 'leather clone', uniform, and have now embraced a multitude of colours and textiles, that has changed the definition of what a modern kinkster "should" look like. Very simply, it was a system that gay men adopted from about onwards, to indicate that they were looking for sex.

Nowadays we cannot always make assumptions — it could simply be that he likes yellow or finds the colour flattering. You signalled what you were looking for, by wearing a hanky in your back pocket. Back in that era, where the kinky was a much bigger deal and homosexuality was illegal, we were more exposed to homophobia, queer-bashing and being ostracised - just asking a guy in a bar a question, could be a fast track to the infirmary.

If you like seeing guys in gay whitey underwear being covered in gunge, or you're into busting your nut 8 times in a very sore session on an overpowered milking machine, you can find it with ease — without trudging around countless gay establishments looking for a green paisley hanky with a white border, in the left pocket of a guy that you might actually be into.

It is truly exciting, and we need to get on board and hold on tight. When you're out-and-about, it's become easier to ask a guy what he's looking for and what he's into — assuming you are unable to instantly find him on your GPS Grindr account 3 meters away.

As we become increasingly accepted, our safety has improved, and our visibility has never been higher. We now travel further to circuit events, connect via online websites or phone apps, and have won gay incest games gay rights.

But where does that leave our valued traditions from a few decades ago? Many players now operate on the scene, from two very different starting points and experiences. Recon has previously covered the basics and history of the hanky code, and its many colours, in features still available to read in the blog archives.

This document lists over different kinks and fetishes, ranging from relatively common ones like bondage, spanking and role playing to more extreme ones involving breath play, blood play or scat that could be dangerous if not done safely.

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These are the events where you can really express yourself. You signalled what you were looking for, by wearing a hanky in your back pocket. The colour of hanky was the other part of the code, which signalled what type of sex, guy, act or fetish you were looking for.

With Apps and online profiles clearly displaying intent whether you are a 'horsehung Alpha-male top', the 'biggest cumdump West of the Mississippi', or maybe into riding a wrist up to the bicep we are now accustomed to a more direct way of communicating who we are, and what we are looking for.

This has happened in a very short space of time, across one generation, and all of us, still happily mix together. By PaulStag As the gay fetish and kink world grows ever wider it becomes increasingly diverse in its tastes.

Very simply, it was a system that gay men adopted from about onwards, to indicate that they were looking for sex. A yellow stripe on a guy's rubber would traditionally signal a desire to be pissed on by 3 truckers with very full bladders.

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We experiment more, and it is easy to find websites or fetish groups for whatever wacky thing we are into, especially if it gets our cocks twitching. Generation X kinksters are very open, happy, unshockable, promiscuous, and arguably see little need for hidden codes which were necessary in a former era.

Now they are just, a fashion statement, or seen as an antiquated but important part of our traditional fetish history. It is easier to change one's sexual mood and communicate it, and we can now be more direct and specific. Without question, we must protect our traditions and history.

Here are the events to add to your kink calendar in the USA. For those in the LGBTQ+ community interested in exploring fetish events, the USA hosts a variety of exciting gatherings.